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Hello, I’m Cara Sutra. Welcome!

Cara Sutra is a long-running, multi-award-winning sex and sexual wellness blog covering BDSM, kink, intimacy, pleasure and sex toys for all. Alongside in-depth reviews and practical advice, I also write honestly about midlife bodies, health, desire and wellbeing from lived experience, with much of that content speaking especially to women.

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Wand Vibrators Guide

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What’s the absolute best wand vibrator? Which is the most powerful wand vibrator? If you’re looking for a mighty toy which can deliver unforgettable orgasms, then sex toy connoisseurs know to head straight for the magic wand vibrators.

G-Spot Toys Guide: How to Choose the Best Vibrators and Dildos...

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In the world of sexuality and intimate pleasure, there is a lot of talk about the G-spot. This may raise several questions for you, such as what is the G-spot? Why is it called that? Does it really exist? Where is the G-spot and how can you stimulate it effectively? What are the best G-stim vibrators & dildos to use? Welcome to my G-Spot Toys guide!

App-Controlled Sex Toys Guide

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Every industry is striving to provide customers with the latest technological advancements in their products, and the sex toy industry is no different. That's right, there are smartphone app controlled sex toys! Read on to find out more about these app-controlled vibrators and internet enabled vibrators.

Sex Toy Reviews

Large Mr Limpy Review: thick, bendy and impossible to ignore, this oversized Fleshlight packer is all about squishy satisfaction. In this hands-on review I share what it’s like to handle, how it looks and how it stacks up against the Small and Medium sizes, reviewed separately here at the Cara Sutra sex blog.
31 October, 2025

Large Mr Limpy Review: Fleshlight’s Biggest Packer for Impressive Bulge

The tip alone feels fantastic, as it glides and probes all at once, slipping over my vulva and making it gently flick against my clit then with firmer strokes, feeling the smaller sucker texture rub against my exposed, hungry nub. It was maddeningly arousing. My body demanded more. This kinky beast needed to be inside me. Now.
20 October, 2025

Tentacle Vibrator Review: Bondara Taint-tacle Monster Vibe

Feeling peachy? I certainly was when I opened up a recent reviewer care package to discover the brand-new fruity release from Womanizer. This Peach sex toy promises a juicy Pleasure Air enhanced ride to orgasm, but for me, it didn’t quite deliver the sweet climax I was dreaming of. Read on for all the sensual, succulent details in my Womanizer Peach review.
6 October, 2025

Womanizer Peach Review: Peachy Pleasure Air Clit Stim Sex Toy

After reviewing plenty of wonderfully weird Nothosaur fantasy dildos, we opted for something a little different this time. And this sex toy is so different, you could say it’s out of this world. Welcome to our Nothosaur Toys Vortima Masturbator review, where I’ll be sharing all the tentacle-texture details of this monster fantasy stroker.
26 September, 2025

Nothosaur Toys Vortima Masturbator Review: Tentacle-Texture Monster Fantasy Stroker

Welcome to my Bondara Corkscrewer Glass Dildo review! It’s been a while since I reviewed a glass sex toy, and when I reviewed the Bondara Glacier Glass Nebula Dildo last year I absolutely loved it. How does this new corkscrew twist style compare? Read on to find out how this beautiful glass toy feels during use, a close-up of its spiral design, rotation vs thrust, temperature play and maintenance.
17 September, 2025

Bondara Corkscrewer Twisted Spiral Glass Dildo Review

Sex Machine Reviews

I would have preferred to communicate my thoughts about this pleasure product via a series of orgasmic grunts and moans, but apparently a written review is required. Today I’m attempting to summarise my feelings about the VVD Rider Desire Sex Saddle, a rideable sex machine from vvdofficial.com...
30 January, 2025

VVD Rider Desire Sex Saddle Review

The Wildolo x Hismith Fucking Machine Review
19 April, 2024

HiSmith Wildolo Sex Machine Review: Premium App-Controlled Unit with KlicLok System

The Hismith Servok Fucking Machine (also known as Servok Premium in the US), is a game changer in the world of thrusting sex machines. Hismith already leads the midrange and budget market, but now they've stormed straight into the high-end too, with the Hismith Servok, featuring a completely new mechanical design and motor that allows the holy grail of fucking machine features...
29 September, 2023

Hismith Servok Review: Adjustable-Depth Power, App Control & Big-Toy Handling

For those seeking a portable and affordable alternative to a full-size fucking machine like the Tremor, Sybian or Motorbunny, the Velvet Thruster Thrusting Dildo should be your first consideration. Sure, it’s noisy compared with a standard handheld vibrator, but this isn’t a standard vibe.
23 May, 2023

Velvet Thruster Thrusting Dildo Review | Frankie / New Lewis Silicone Top

The Bondara Joy Extanda 10 Function Remote Thrusting Dildo is a thrusting vibrator—a hybrid toy that's somewhere in between a full-on fucking machine and a basic vibrating dildo. Available now for £100 from Bondara, will this slick 6” solid silicone extendable cock sow the seeds of delight for you? And how does it compare to its closest competitor: the HiSmith Traveller Pro?
15 May, 2023

Bondara Joy Extanda 10 Function Remote Thrusting Dildo Review (with comparison to HiSmith Traveller Pro 2.0)

BDSM Gear Reviews

Large Mr Limpy Review: thick, bendy and impossible to ignore, this oversized Fleshlight packer is all about squishy satisfaction. In this hands-on review I share what it’s like to handle, how it looks and how it stacks up against the Small and Medium sizes, reviewed separately here at the Cara Sutra sex blog.
31 October, 2025

Large Mr Limpy Review: Fleshlight’s Biggest Packer for Impressive Bulge

At just under £30, the Bondara Step On Me Punisher Wooden Paddle is a solid addition to an existing BDSM punishment tools collection. The traditional, tactile material, combined with the aesthetically alluring boot print and versatile, sensual usage options make this a winner in my book.
26 May, 2025

Bondara Step On Me Punisher Wooden Paddle Review

Many thanks to my slave Penny for his detailed and honest thoughts on the Juliet Toys Rattlesnake Chastity Cage – always a pleasure to put him to work for me, especially writing a product review while squirming in denied desire in a locked chastity cage.
20 May, 2025

Juliet Toys Rattlesnake Chastity Cage Review

Yee-haw partner! Bondara are bringing the thrill of the wild west to the bedroom – or anywhere you fancy, really – with their exciting new product: the Bondara Straddle Saddle. This ingenious invention helps you lasso an orgasmic ride where all you have to do is sit tight and hold on to your hat...
12 March, 2025

Bondara Straddle Saddle Review: Hands-Free Dildo Bucking Bliss

Once the Bondara Stainless Steel Heart Clit Clamp is correctly in position, with the sides holding my labia together and the top ringed area nestled around my clitoral hood, it’s surprisingly… not painful! It’s more like a secure grip with constant contact with my labia and around the edges of my clitoris, rather than any ouchy pinching or trapping sensation, like I’d been worried about.
5 February, 2025

Bondara Stainless Steel Heart Clit Clamp Review

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